3 Ways to Build Family Connections

Strong family connections help siblings feel supported, understood, and included — especially when one child has autism. Here are three practical ways to strengthen these bonds:

1. Really Listen

• Give siblings your full attention when they speak.

• Avoid interrupting or immediately correcting them.

• Show empathy and validate their feelings: “I hear you, that must be frustrating.”

• Tip: Create a regular “check-in time” where each child can share what’s on their mind.

2. Encourage Shared Activities

• Plan activities that both siblings enjoy, like board games, art, or outdoor play.

• Focus on cooperation, not competition.

• Tip: Start with short activities to prevent frustration and build positive experiences gradually.

3. Model Positive Communication

• Demonstrate respectful, calm ways to express feelings, resolve conflicts, and ask for help.

• Children learn by watching adults; your example teaches them healthy communication skills.

• Tip: Narrate your own feelings and problem-solving aloud: “I’m feeling a bit stressed, so I’m taking a deep breath.”

Extra Tip: Celebrate small wins together. Even brief moments of teamwork, laughter, or shared understanding strengthen connections over time.